''JUST SAYING'': When you are doing good

Today im going to talk about how others react when everything is going good in your life,when we are starting to prosper how other individuals feel about it; I was looking trought some of my notes in one of my web pages and one of them cought my eye, because honestly all of us in one time of our lives experience it, and its the negative reaction of other people when we are having happiness in our lives, and what makes it even worse is when this negative vive comes from those that should be happy for you, from that person that we think is looking for our happiness, some one you would be happy to go and share your happiness with, and even if they dont let you know at the end of the day you always know.

Envy: is a symptom of lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self worth. Each of us has something to give that no one else has but that theres always someone who might want from you.

Jealousy: is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative self value.

So in conclusion my thinking about those who have this negative perspective of other peoples happiness is, "If you cannot love yourself, then you will not believe that you are loved,You will always think it's a mistake or luck. you need to take your eyes off others and pay attention to what you really have to focus on ,your self; by living this way you are just pushing happiness, peasce and success far away from you. Find the seeds of your jealousy; Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.

Once again, thank you for taking a few minutes of your time to read me, feel free to comment , I'm looking forward to read you.

                                                                       MRS.DRamirez